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Meet today's Stigma Warrior:

My name is Tony Ferraiolo, and for the past 18 years, I’ve dedicated my life to advocating for transgender youth and their families. My journey began when I realized how much support and guidance trans youth were missing. Growing up as a transgender person, I didn’t have role models or a community that understood me, and that isolation fueled my passion to create the resources and safe spaces I wish I’d had.

Through my role as the Director of the Youth and Family Program at Health Care Advocates International, I get to connect with incredible individuals who are creating real change. Whether it’s a parent finding hope in a support group or a young person discovering their voice, every moment matters.

Today, I’m proud to lead programs that empower young people to live authentically, support parents navigating their own journeys, and educate communities about the importance of acceptance and inclusion. My work has brought me to classrooms, hospitals, and stages across the country, and every interaction has been a reminder of the strength and resilience of the LGBTQ+ community.

For me, being a Stigma Warrior is about more than just advocacy, it's about showing up for others, standing in solidarity, and inspiring the next generation to embrace their truth unapologetically.

I believe it’s crucial to stand up against stigma and discrimination because they are barriers that prevent people from living their lives fully and authentically. When we allow stigma to persist, we enable fear, shame, and isolation, feelings I know all too well as a transgender person. Nobody should have to face rejection or judgment simply for being who they are.

Discrimination not only harms individuals, but it also weakens our communities. When we challenge it, we create space for empathy, understanding, and growth. By standing up, we send a powerful message that everyone deserves respect and dignity, no matter their gender identity, race, religion, or any other aspect of who they are.

My work is about building a world where people feel seen, valued, and safe. Standing up against stigma is how we move closer to that reality, and I’m committed to being part of that change.

I fight stigma in my own life by showing up as my authentic self every day and using my voice to educate and inspire others. As a transgender man, I know firsthand how damaging stigma can be, so I make it a point to lead with compassion and understanding in everything I do. Whether it’s through my advocacy work with transgender youth and their families, my public speaking, or even one-on-one conversations, I strive to break down misconceptions and replace them with truth and empathy.

On a personal level, I challenge stigma by refusing to let it define me. Instead of hiding my story, I share it openly, because I believe visibility is a powerful tool for change. When people see someone living authentically and thriving, it can break down the stereotypes and fears that fuel discrimination.

Fighting stigma isn’t always easy, but I believe every step we take—no matter how small—brings us closer to a world where everyone is valued and accepted for who they are.

My advice to anyone facing stigma and discrimination within their community is to remember that your worth is not defined by the way others treat you. You are worthy of love, respect, and acceptance exactly as you are. While it’s not always easy, finding a supportive network of people who see and value you for your true self can make a world of difference. Surround yourself with those who love and empower you.

It’s also important to take care of your mental and emotional well-being. Facing discrimination can be exhausting, so give yourself permission to rest, heal, and prioritize self-love.

Finally, know that you are not alone. There are so many people and organizations working to fight stigma and create a more inclusive world. Reach out, share your story, and lean on those who understand what you’re going through. And if you feel safe, use your voice to educate others, because every conversation has the potential to change hearts and minds.